"I, even I, am he who comforts you." ~ Isaiah 51:12
Friends come and go, but there is One who never leaves.
When others forget us, neglect us, or misunderstand us, there's still Someone as near as our breath. He's not just the Comforter, but the God of ALL comfort, and my God doesn't give scraps.
"We may venture to hope sometimes that little scraps of comfort may be granted to us. But we run away frightened at the thought of the all comfort that is ours in the salvation of the Lord Jesus Christ" (Hannah Whitall Smith).
I don't know if we're frightened of all comfort, as much as we don't believe we'll receive it.
I was never comforted much in my childhood, left to endure a lot of pain in silence. As an adult, it's easy to revert back to "nobody really cares" and pull back, trying to comfort myself. But this is the Lord's job, to comfort all who mourn. Those who don't need the comfort won't, of course, experience His comfort, but that's why I think it's good when we're afflicted. We then experience what we've read in the Scriptures - His promises, His comfort, His indwelling life, and, oh my - grace upon grace.
"But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us..." ~ 2 Corinthians 7:6When I'm downcast or ambling through the dark, I remember He sees what I need. He understands every ache, every sigh, every tear, and wants to lift any despair. So many personal trials have placed me in the tender position to sense His Everlasting Arms. God's words may fall deaf on hearts that sense no need, but here in my aloneness, I'm ready to receive.
"For the Lord comforts Zion; he comforts all her waste places and makes her wilderness like Eden, her desert like the garden of the Lord; joy and gladness will be found in her, thanksgiving and the voice of song." ~ Isaiah 51:3
And so I'm reminded of words I underlined long ago: "God knows that it is better for us to need His comfort and receive it, than for us not to need it and be without it" (Hannah Whitall Smith).
I'm filled with need on any given day. We're all needy, whether we realize or not. And I think we're drawn into closer union with Him when we give up pretending, and receive every bit of His comfort. Not scraps of His comfort, so that we still go around with lack, but ALL comfort - just as He said.
"Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted." ~ Matthew 5:4
Because, eventually, life will take a turn from what we've known and loved. It might be hard to believe words of comfort then, but in my experience, God bends low to comfort because He's our Daddy. When we turn our thoughts to His comfort and let the power of His Spirit move through His Word, unbelief has no room to grow and comfort is ours to keep.

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Victoria Gaines


















19 Comments:
Amen, love you my friend.
dear vicki,
i was just at my lap top now when your message came.
is everytbing all right vicki?
oh i hope so, and vicki, i never knew that you had pain in your childhood with nobody to comfort you.
i wish that us golden children had known you as a friend!
and if you were anything like you are today, we would have been the blessed ones!
well i am blessed, having you as a friend now, and we are ALL blessed having the lord as our comforter and friend!
have a good fourth of july vicki, you and richard and the family...love terry
Oh Vicki, how your words touched my heart. First of all, I've read much of Hannah Whitall Smith's writings and I love them. This woman did not have an easy life by any means so she knows from experience.
I know you've been going through a difficult time. I'm praying for you and for your husband as he recuperates and faces the future. So glad to read where you turn for help and comfort; our Lord.
Although we are going through different circumstances, we both know where to turn. I'm not selling my house because I want to. It's a difficult situation. I may email you privately. In the meantime, know that I've not forgotten you and may the God of all comfort, comfort you as only He can.
Vicki...big hugs...I too was not comforted as a child..you know the children should be seen and not heard house...yup..I refuse to raise my Amy like that and I am not....
The God of All Comfort has made up for all the ashes in my life and yours too...He is always there and amen my friend....
Thinking of you Vicki and praying for you, your husband, and your family...Love, kathleen
The God of all comfort...He IS...and He is yours....love you.
love.love.love this!!! Thanks.
Still thinking of you and praying for you...Kathleen
ear Vicki,
I have been thinking and praying for you a lot lately, knowing you are both facing an ordeal.
With prayers, lots of prayers, I hope things will turn out for the best for the whole family.
Constanse gave me these words this spring, "We pray for what we wish. The Lord will give us what we need."
It has been such a comfort to me. Hope you can grasp hold of its contents and find rest in them too.
I like to think you are my friend and vice verso.
From Felisol
I have struggled with the same for so many years and today if I am not so careful the enemy will use that against me again....When we are weary and tired and vulnerable the enemy will come at us full force.... It is then that we place full faith in HIS promises ! HE is faithful.... HE is the comforter!
Hi Vicki,
I pray you and your husband are doing well.
God's Blessings to you!
Julie
I couldn't agree more. It is true that we often are forgotten by ones we thought were friends, but at the end we only have one true friend...
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom, Vicki.
Be blessed today and always...
I cling to the God of all comfort. I've tried everything else and nothing fills the hole of my heart like Jesus.
Thanks for your ministry to the body of Christ.
Write on.
God bless,
Tiffany
I get nervous and sad sometimes when I think that life will change drastically for me. Both of my parents are still alive and doing well but I am aware that one day this will not be the case. They are my closest friends in this world and I don't know how I will get along without them.
But you are right to remind me that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever. Although, when I go through dark times its sometimes very hard to remember that His love and comfort is enough.
In childhood I often felt nobody really cared - not when it mattered - not when I felt at my worst. I didn't feel their care, concern or comfort when I was hurting. I learned my emotions didn't matter therefore I didn't matter.
Some time ago those same emotions came back strong but instead of entering that lonely pit as I usually did for the first time - I knew deep in my heart with conviciton that God cared. It was tremendous. For years, I knew in my mind He cared, but not in my heart. It was real and powerful and I haven't felt alone since b/c He reminds me of my value to Him and He is always there. And His love covers a mulitude of wrongs in us and what others have done to us.
Thanks for sharing your heart and blessing mine - in rejoicing in God's and my initimacy that carries me through soaring above the disappointments in this life.
Rachel
Thank you for sharing this. I feel that the Lord totally led me to your blog to read this. I have always been ministered to by your blog and now I understand why. I was not comforted as a child, either, and I tend to do the same things you do - comfort myself. I am trying to change that and turn to the One who is THE comforter!!
I read about your hubby. Just know I'm praying for you. My hubby had this exact same surgery 2 years ago, and things are good. I'm praying the same will be true for your hubby. Just know it will probably take him about 1 year to get to where he's feeling like his old self again. It's a very intrusive surgery and it takes the body time to heal. My hubby was 61 when he had the surgery, so his age was a factor in his healing time, too.
May the Lord bless you and your hubby - give you comfort, peace and strength to deal with everything.
God bless you - Julie
Came by to say I'm thinking of you. Hope all is well today. I'll check on you at Facebook.
Dear Vicki,
I came back and read your post once more,
knowing that I was the one needing comfort.
Those quotes from the Scripture and also from Hannah Whitall Smith sure made a difference for me today.
Goad has made it clear that I need his comfort. I know I shall receive.
Amen
From Felisol
What an awesome devotional Vicki.
God continues to use you to minister to me!
Continuing to pray for your hubby's recovery♥
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